Could this relationship work between me and him?

I like this guy a lot and he likes me, the only thing is, he dropped out of high school and I am in college getting a degree in teaching. He also drinks and smokes and I don't do either. We always have fun together and have a lot of chemistry despite those things. Do you think It would be a good idea to start dating this guy after he asked me out because of the things I mentioned that we dont have in common? thanks a lot,Could this relationship work between me and him?
he sounds like a winner...





be sure and take him home to meet your parents...Could this relationship work between me and him?
Personally, I can foresee a lot of problems with this and I personally, would probably steer clear of a situation like this from the beginning. You have to think about the future as well as the present! Are you going to want to have and raise babies in a home breathing second hand smoke and setting that kind of example? Everyone doesn't need to have a college/university degree....but education is important and will he have enough ';smarts'; to mentally stimulate you? Chemistry is all well and good but you can't build the foundation of a relationship on chemistry!.....it will never be strong enough to withstand the problems of day to day living that every couple face. You have fun together....but there's more to life than just having fun! When the hard times come.....emotional, financial, etc......is he going to be there to weather the storm with you or will drinking be his escape from reality.


You need to write a list of the important things you want in a guy and when that list is complete, that is your standard!....your expectation! Don't settle for less than what you want and never compromise! If a guy doesn't meet your ';criteria';, pass them by! If you stick to your criteria, it will weed out a lot of guys who aren't suitable or what you're looking for. You may not get as many dates as other girls, but the ones you do have will be quality dates! Keep in mind, it only takes ONE guy to rock your world and be a perfect life partner for you.
Opposites always seem to attract at first, but they usually cause more harm than in the end. His habits will likely drive you nuts if he doesn't change them. Smoking and drinking are pretty big things. And you do not want to be the one to try and change him. He will see this as nagging and will begin to resent you. I suggest that you back graciously out of this relationship.
i dont think that matters at all if you two do get along and have things in common why not? little things like that should not stop a relationship unless it bothers you that he does that. and im sure he will do something about his future right? like maybe get back into school so maybe it will work out..you should ask yourself that if you want it to work go for it
Give him a choice the cigs or you


dont mind the drinking you can work on it later


if he chooses the cigs he is not right for you


if he tries and tries take him to parents and show howmuch stregnth he has


help me plz


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He doesn't exactly sound a prize guy! But you have obviously decided you want to give it a go. You will not like the taste of his mouth when you kiss though, and since you are looking down on him already I would give it about 3 weeks.