Saturday, December 5, 2009

What are the reasons as to WHY or WHY NOT a friendship like this would work out?

Where one likes their friend as MORE than a friend, but the other one sees them as JUST a friend? Okay, so say the friendship continues... Why or why not would this be good?What are the reasons as to WHY or WHY NOT a friendship like this would work out?
I guess because the one who loves will eventually wake up and get tired of waiting for the friend to wake up and love him/her in return. So it will just be a great friendship that was as good as it lasted that could have been.What are the reasons as to WHY or WHY NOT a friendship like this would work out?
Most male/female friendships start with one liking the other. Whether you can continue %26amp; have a lasting friendship beyond that is still out for debate. For me, it is possible. My best friend is a guy %26amp; we've been friends for 21 years. I met him when I was 15. I'm 36 now. We've had ups %26amp; downs, lines have been crossed, relationships have been disrespected, but it's all a part of growing up. I'm engaged now %26amp; he accepts it. I think you hit a point where there's no turning back.





Whatever the original motive was no longer exists. We really are just friends now but it takes a lot to get there in my opinion. A male/female friendship is always harder to understand.
It sounds like you are the person who wants to be more than friends. You will not convince your friend to be in any other type of relationship. This isn't a reason to stop being friends, but you need to realize that what you want is not likely to happen. I could give you more advice, if I had more information. Love is not a game though. If I tell you anymore than this, you may loose a friend. For now, I would tell you to direct you time and energy someone else.
Well the friend with feelings would always be seeking more, over analyzing, and may even become a bit attached in a creepy way. The friend without feelings would eventually take notice, and start to back off.
Here's the bottom line:





YOU CAN'T MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU.





So, you either have to accept it will only ever be close friendship or choose to find love and affection elsewhere.
the friendship would work long as the feelings were not exposed of course and then if they were to be it would put to much stress on both for the friendship to continue
there's no way such friendship will work out, unless both parties agree to carry on with it as either just friends or more than friends..you cant have both..
Both of them will be hurt.
well it would be good for one %26amp; not the other... so there you go

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