I like this girl that works in a restaurant but i dot know how to ask her out?

,she is a waitress ,we have talk sometimes but not for a long time because she's working and all.well is kind of creepy asking for her phone number when she doenst know me at all, and i dont wanna leave her a NOTE ,because she goona think that im goona rape her or something,,so wat can i do?I like this girl that works in a restaurant but i dot know how to ask her out?
Mate, i lol'd at the rape note thing.


But yes, your right, it would be slightly creepy. Ask her if when she's finished work she'd like to meet you somewere, find out what she thinks of you and take it from there.


Remember, if she's good looking, your just another customer that'd have a flirt with her. Prove your more than thatI like this girl that works in a restaurant but i dot know how to ask her out?
First, it really depends on how old you are. If you are over 21 then maybe you can just say ';would you like to go get some coffee/drinks with me sometime?'; but after you've already said ';hi, how was your weekend?';
next time u talk to her just ask her if she would like to go out sometime - drinks, dinner, etc. I am a server at my part time job and i talk to alot of the regulars and let me tell u....there are a few that i would love to ask me out! LOL!!! If your too shy for that try to talk to someone that knows her and get info. on her. Life is too short - make ur move!
clip the note of your phone number to a franklin and leave it as a tip that should get her attention
Well a note would actaully be nice... leave a nice tip... lol (duh) then leave your number since you don't want to leave a note. If she is interested she will call you.... make sure you leave your name with the number if she doesn't know it... but if you want to just ask her out while she is taking your order... if they aren't busy and she doesn't look all worn out...
If you are a steady and regular customer, simply ask her out. All she can do is say yes or no.
';Would you like to go out with me for dinner sometime?';
wait until her shift is over and talk to her. then give her your number and ask if she would like to get some coffee one day before she goes to work.
first.. get her to be your server.. then tell her this.. '; I see that you serve lots of people you must be a caring person.'; She will reply if it is a good response then continue with this. ';Since you're always waiting on people, You should let me take you out to dinner and let others wait on you for a change..'; this should be followed by giggling and a yes. if not then sorry my friend.
first ask her if shes seeing anyone that way she will know you are interested and give her the choice to lie are go out whit you
';hey, Whould you like to go out some time? OK let me get your number. ';
Dude just ask for her number, it;s that easy, you think to much about what shes gonna think or say, if she doesn't like you then move on man
Tell you what. Print up some cards with YOUR name and number on them.





Next time you eat at her station, when you pay the check...hand her a card and just tell her ';I'd like the chance to get to know you outside of work sometime. Just think about it, no pressure.';





It's low-key, you haven't interrupted her workday but for two sentences, and you are looking her right in the eye for those two sentences.





It puts the ball in her court, and she is free to dispose of it or return the volley.





Tip well.
go in there often, become a more familiar face to her, and strike up 'interesting' conversations with her... or make a simple comment that can change her whole day... you could learn some sort of origami and leave her money tip as a folded origami and make small gradual impressions on this person... you can send flowers from a 'secret admirer' and send with them a genuine note, kept simple and just say something like: ';although we don't really know each other well, you've made quite an impression on me'' then kinda go and see if theres somebody who could let you in on the reaction (a waiter or somebody who may not spill the beans on you) you should get creative, and don't just go by the advice you get on the computer...
mmm You Should send her flowers w/ a cute lil note complimenting her how attractive she is ... But not in a freaky Kinda way... W/ class !!! and alos carefully choose the flowers too that'll be a nice touch..


when you get chance talk to her, find out if she's seeing someone ?


** Dont be pushy or anything like


GooD luck Hoper u find your answer =D
Smile. Make eye contact. Make her laugh. Talk about things that make her feel good. Make more eye contact. Then say,





I'd like to get together some time. Here's my number. Give me a call some time and we'll go have an adventure.





If she declines smile and say no worries.





If she says yes, follow through. Have an adventure. Not just a dinner and movie. Take her rock climbing at a gym or something.





Good luck
1.Find out her centers of interest.


2.Organize for the two of you to go somewhere she may enjoy.


3. Ask her if she is interested.





Example:





You find out she like french films. You buy tickets for a french film airing in local theatre. You ask her if she would like to go see this film with you 'because i have these two tickets...'





Note:





You don't really have to buy stuff beforehand, the thing is to come up with a plan of something the two of you could do together and that _she would be interested in_ , then propose you idea to her and see if she is agreeable.





ETA: I stress that the activity you will propose is what will make the difference if you are a not particularly handsome/rich/special guy. It will be the occasion for you to show that you have a genuine interest for what *she* is interested in. And if it is something she might enjoy, there will be a bigger chance for her to say yes even if she doesn't find you particularly fascinating at first.





And please avoid the 'let's have a drink' lameness, unless, I repeat, you are particularly irresistible or have a very special place in mind, because let's face it, she isn't likely to be thirsty enough to say yes right away.





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just ask her hey can you have a drink with me.
Leave her you myspace number if you have one


So then if she adds you


you know shes interested


Then you guys can talk over there to get to know each other


Then make plans or what not


It worked for my friend..
Do you have any friends in common or is she just someone that works at a place you go to? If you are going to ask her out you have to make sure it is a situation where she immediately feels comfortable. For example: It should be a busy public meeting spot. You should be with a group of people (preferably people she has seen in the restaurant with you). You should have a reason why she should say yes (like it is going to be a good time because...). Do not try to be coy or be open ended about it. Otherwise it is going to seem like too big of a chance for her to take.
yeah, I agree with the first answer.... you dont have to write her a 5 page letter, just say hi, I think you're cute, you should give me a call sometime.... write it on a napkin so it doesnt seem all 'planned' or on your reciept, when you get to the restaurant ask to sit in her section so that you can just leave it on the table. and dont forget to leave her a big tip. LOL
Grow some balls and just ask her, most girls like that. Its called talking to them.
leave a little flower with small tag that has your number and says youd like to get to know her better. leave it on top of the tip next time you eat there
Just leave her your phone #.
Just tell her the truth because she may not be single or she likes you just as you like her. A lot of girls actually like it when a boy writes them a letter. So you might want to try that or not, the most important thing is that the decision is all up to you. Maybe she is to shy to ask you, it could be a alot of things. Hope this helps!!
Talk to one of her coworkers. Ask them when is the next time she gets off work. Sit in her section that night before she gets off. When she waits on your table introduce yourself and ask her if she would like to join you for dinner when she gets off work.
Dont give her your # most women wont call a man they dont know.Ask her for hers, or just simply ask her if she would like to go out sometime while yall are talking. Especially if she has shown any interest.If she has...it'll be easy...what do you have to lose?
Keep conversing with her, and even though its a faux-pas to try to pick up a waitress while shes working, drop some kind of small hint that you might want to go somewhere with her or want her #, and see if she bites.
Ya don't ask waitresses out you just become friends with them if you really frequent the place. The future is uncertain.
I think it would be cute if you wrote your number and a sweet, short message on a small paper and handed it to her with her tip! Don't just leave it on the table. Some freak may get it! When you leave her a tip, don't go and leave a $10 or $20. She'll think, I'm not a sl ut. She'll also think you are trying to buy her love from the get-go. Just leave a $5. How about this: When she comes to your table and says, ';what would you like today';? Tell her! Say I'd like to exchange numbers so that we could hang out some time! If she blows you off, just laugh a little and then order your food. Still leave the tip with your # though!!!!!